I’m thought I’d share an article that I featured in in “Tavy Links” magazine, offering a glimpse into my journey and insights into the counselling profession. The article was published in 2017, so might be a bit dated now! Below are some of the questions I answer in the article…
Here’s a link to the full article
My path to becoming a counsellor grew from my first career as a primary school teacher. Inspired by my fascination with philosophy and psychology, and my unwavering desire to continue working with people, I decided to embark on a counselling course. While I found joy in teaching, I discovered a true vocation in counselling, driven by my innate ability to listen attentively and my empathetic nature.
Let’s delve into the training and qualifications required to become a counsellor. Counselling courses typically span between three and five years. Aspiring counsellors often start with an Introduction to Counselling Skills Certificate, which provides a foundation for understanding the profession and assessing one’s suitability for the role. From there, options expand, leading to diplomas, degrees, and even doctorates. Once qualified with a diploma, gaining practical experience becomes crucial, and accreditation with a professional body like the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) is highly valued. Accreditation signifies a counsellor’s commitment to ongoing personal and professional development, adherence to a code of ethics, and the accumulation of at least 450 hours of counselling experience.
My own journey involved four years of study while still teaching, and I obtained my counselling diploma. After maternity leave, I decided to focus solely on counselling and have been practising since 1999. Now, as a senior accredited supervisor, I provide guidance and support to other counsellors.
Let’s explore my work settings. I have a serene therapy room located in my garden—a tranquil space where clients can feel safe and at ease. Additionally, I work in Exeter one day a week and occasionally collaborate with external agencies. I also contribute my expertise to the Marjon student counselling service during specific times of the year.
Being a counsellor requires creating a space where individuals can be fully heard and supported. I strive to maintain a structured working week, seeing no more than five clients per day. By offering my clients time, confidentiality, and a non-judgmental environment, I empower them to explore their emotions, gain self-understanding, and make informed choices. I want to emphasize that seeking counselling is an act of strength and self-care, rather than a sign of weakness or failure.
For those considering a career in counselling, I describe how you will learn about active and attentive listening, along with being non-prejudicial, trustworthy, and open-minded, and that these are essential qualities for aspiring counsellors. While the field is fascinating and provides ample opportunities for self-discovery, it’s important to note that gaining practical experience can be challenging due to high demand for work for the many that embark on such a fulfilling training.
I share that the best part of my job lies in the deeply rewarding relationships I form with my clients. Witnessing their growth, increased self-worth, and positive life choices is truly gratifying. I believe in the inherent worth of every individual and cherish the opportunity to help them recognize their own self-worth.